Goodbye aart

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We on the Michigan thread noted a few months ago that we had not heard from our friend aart for a while. One of our enterprising members (thank you @TheDandyLion ) managed to track down the bad news.

Many, many people here on BYC benefited from aart's knowledge, and her willingness to share so that others would benefit from her well thought out solutions to problems. She was generous with her time and expertise, and there are many of us who will miss her.

https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/wilcoxnewspapers-pcl/name/anne-arthur-obituary?id=58161790
 
aart, aart, aart. She definitely left her mark on BYC and I'll miss seeing her around.
I've seen her posts around as far back as I can remember. I think we had something in common here. We were both misunderstood by a lot of members.
I saw aart as a no nonsense, no BS type of person. For a while I knew her like most did. That member that would be quick to jump on the you need hardware cloth and where in this world are you located?
I liked aart from the go. Many said she didn't have a sense of humor and wasn't very social. I tried to interact with her some but it was slow going. Friends said leave her alone she's not gonna like you and she's not gonna think you're funny.
Challenge accepted. I don't always make the best decisions but I decided that day that one day we would be friends.
It was still slow going and for a while I thought it may never happen and I was probably just pissing her off.
One day I commented on a thread about snow blowing in a vent hole. Yeah you can probably guess where I went with that. aart quoted my post and said dude, pull your pants up your vent hole is showing.
That was a defining moment. She did indeed have a sense of humor and she was finally starting to understand me. I can't say that we ever became friends but after that I would often get reactions from her on several of my posts.
I messed with her every chance I got but it was out of respect. I felt she started to understand me and I knew her well enough to know that she could give and take and that she did have a sense of humor it just may have been a little different than others.
BYC has lost a good one and that saddens me. I'll miss you aart
 
She certainly treated everyone the same and with no BS

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