The Dim Side
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- Mar 16, 2021
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So I know it's a craps shoot of which sex is which. We got our first Roman Tufted and was told she was a girl but might be a boy. We got our second Roman Tufted and was told he was a boy but might be a girl. I also think they're probably not actually purebreds, lol. But as they're getting older, I was wondering if certain behaviors give the sex away more.
The white one, Lemongrab, is around 14 weeks, and the gray one, Tooey, is 13 weeks. Tooey does a lot more actual honking with a slightly lower voice, while Lemongrab still does more chirping. (Tooey can also fly better, while Lemongrab's feet sorta drag on the ground while she tries, lol. But Tooey's wings are firmer and more uniform? And Lemongrab's are softer and more disheveled.)
Lemongrab has recently started to show more aggression/defensiveness toward my dad's dog when they visit. Lemongrab lowers her neck and curls it back a bit and charges at the dog, trying to chase it around. The dog is much, much larger than Lemongrab, too, but the dog is friendly at least and doesn't attack. It was actually really cute the other day when the dog came to greet me by jumping up on me and accidentally scratching my arm, and Lemongrab shrieked and ran toward us with her wings out, with Tooey following. But I worry that this behavior will get her in trouble, so I'm hoping we can get her to calm down. She also does it to one of my cats when he sneaks outside, charging at him. Lemongrab loves people though (so far), so I think she might have imprinted on a human when she was born. She loves "hugs" (I just hold my arms on her sides) and kisses on the face, haha. And Tooey likes to lead them and wander around to places, a very take-charge attitude. He doesn't like physical affection as much but still likes to follow us around.
I've heard that females can have lower voices, and males will do more of the snake-like motions when aggravated/defensive. Both of them have started "fooling around" in the pool recently, too, trying to get on top of the other. But Lemongrab never wants to be on the bottom. So are these signs that their sexes are actually the opposite? Or is it still too hard to tell for sure right now?