They may not be able to much longer. The FDA may start enforcing long standing rules that say things labeled milk must actually be from dairy animals. Plants don't make real milk.
I don't like heat either but I've never seen an Asian restaurant that didn't have "low spice" foods available.
Buy some ultra pasteurized HEAVY CREAM and put a few drops of vanilla in your coffee after the cream is mixed in. That cream will last a LONG time. I buy the 8 oz size since I only drink coffee on Sunday morning and then only 1 cup so 8 oz of cream lasts many many weeks.

The idea is to make it creamier not more watery!