Granny it is NOT your fault in anyway, shape or form. My Sis in law , didn't take Mick into the Dr when he was little with a broken arm because Mick wasn't complaining (play ground accident) Things just happen.
I realize a broken arm is not as serious but I don't think the guilt that all parents feel is much different, irregardless of the severity. YOU DO THE BEST you can with the information and resources you have at the time.



and other's believe you need to eat cabbage to bring "wealth or fortune" and I know I am forgetting some. Seems like every region has their traditions.