You should have made robert go to help you.I lifted his wheelchair in and out the van 3 times today. I dont know how I did it. I can barely move all the time telling him no hun, Its not heavy at all. But I took him to eat and goodwill. His 2 fav. places to go. We went to bob evens and he ordered The whole hog ! He ate almost all of it too. It was worth it.