@Sally Sunshine, a wise man (my minister) once gave me this sage bit of wisdom. He said 'you can give people advice based on your personal knowledge and life experience, but it is up to them whether or not to make use of it'.
I still make use of that wisdom when ever I want to do this...
after talking to people.
Sometimes the best we can do is offer folks a hug and be there for them when they need us.
I still make use of that wisdom when ever I want to do this...

Sometimes the best we can do is offer folks a hug and be there for them when they need us.