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they offered Tom the same thing they did to you but he didnt like the possible side effects. He had already had his stroke and only had use of one arm. He said if he couldnt hold his bladder he would need diapers and he wasnt putting that job on me. I tried to assure him I would be happy to help him but wouldnt do it. Then he found out the other possible risk and he wasnt willing to give that up. The dr said it was very slow growing so he wouldnt probably live long enough for it to bother him. So the enlarged prostrate wont allow him to empty his bladder and that causes the uti.