I yelled at a girl today. She was 40 minutes late to work in the kitchen. She was fine but DH said something and she got mad. Fine, I don't care how mad she gets so long as she works. But when I left to do my food order she stopped working and stared at the mixer for 20 minutes because she ran out of cornmeal. I was livid. I went over and said "are you the only one here?" And she nodded. "GOOD, because now I'm pissed off." And told her all sorts of things. 
