Granny's gone and done it again

[Granny Hatchet]

Say what?

wrestler

 

[jane s chickens]

Gran y went shopping after she found her/Tom's money. Just kidding

 

[willzpapa]

I can hear Tom ripping his room apart. He lost money he took from my wallet. I hope I find it first. He wont see one red dime.

Sue and I been married close to well a long time we was married before Will was borned and I have held her purse, I have carried her purse, I have even fetched her purse. But I ain't ever opened or even looked inside he purse. She does carry an epi pen in an outside pocket and I had to administer that once. But that's it. And I don't aim to change lol.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

I have a friend from church. She is 57 and she lives on SSI. She gets about 900 a month. She has subsidized housing so her rent is 300. The apt complex she lives in is really crappy. She has been turning in the slum lord for all kinds of violations. Now she gets a 60 day notice to move. I guess in California they can do that. You don't have to give the people any reason but she knows why. Of course she can't find a place. I try to help her out by hiring her to come over and do work for me. Problem is her two sons just suck her dry. She is still giving them money. She is a good person and tries to help people but she doesn't know how to set any boundaries with her kids. They are adults, they should be helping her out not vice versa I feel bad for her but she isn't asking for my advice so I don't give any. What do you do for people like this?

Nothing, shes 57. step back and let her figure it out.

 

[CapricornFarm]

I have a friend from church. She is 57 and she lives on SSI. She gets about 900 a month. She has subsidized housing so her rent is 300. The apt complex she lives in is really crappy. She has been turning in the slum lord for all kinds of violations. Now she gets a 60 day notice to move. I guess in California they can do that. You don't have to give the people any reason but she knows why. Of course she can't find a place. I try to help her out by hiring her to come over and do work for me. Problem is her two sons just suck her dry. She is still giving them money. She is a good person and tries to help people but she doesn't know how to set any boundaries with her kids. They are adults, they should be helping her out not vice versa I feel bad for her but she isn't asking for my advice so I don't give any. What do you do for people like this?

You really can't do anything. I have a friend who keeps giving her son money. He keeps getting women pregnant, has three kids by three different women so most of his money goes for child support etc. He keeps coming up with emergencies, he needs a car or he can't get to work etc. I told her she is being used but she keeps doing it. You can't help them if they don't want help.

 

[jane s chickens]

Granny, did he still have all of it?

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Granny, did he still have all of it?

yup, $140.00

 

[willzpapa]

Granny you needing shed of a rooster look in recent post

 

[willzpapa]

No I reckon that was Alley

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Sue and I been married close to well a long time we was married before Will was borned and I have held her purse, I have carried her purse, I have even fetched her purse. But I ain't ever opened or even looked inside he purse. She does carry an epi pen in an outside pocket and I had to administer that once. But that's it. And I don't aim to change lol.

aqnd thats what I told him Papa, I never once in 25 yrs. opened his wallet . This is a little different though. Tom has had many strokes and last time dr. looked he said he was amazed at the brain function he has compared to the damage that has been done.