Granny's gone and done it again

[Granny Hatchet]

Experts claim the best way to talk to men is to not look them in the eye. Its too confrontational . Instead go for a walk and side by side start talking. Dont use words like you .your, ect.. instead say we, our. In other words dont place blame .

 

[MrsMistyReal]

Don’t get me wrong. I don’t think for a second that he doesn’t love me. There’s things he does though that seem selfish (or crazy) that I know are a result of how he was brought up...

My hubby was that way at first but it didn't stem from childhood,in fact he had a great childhood It was the poor choices he made when choosing relationships,friendships, he had to come to reality , that not everything is his,that you don't need to be possive,of what you have,that not everyone is the same,& yes certain people can be trusted.He learned by going through a spiritual transition,thanks to our daughter we started this journey together.I had issues to work on to.No our marriage isn't perfect but through God we're getting there .No one can someone they have to have the want,the will& let Christ show the will.Ok I'm sorry enough preaching,just an opinion

 

[MrsMistyReal]

Experts claim the best way to talk to men is to not look them in the eye. Its too confrontational . Instead go for a walk and side by side start talking. Dont use words like you .your, ect.. instead say we, our. In other words dont place blame .

Exactly everything is equal,well said

 

[MrsMistyReal]

I went to consoling after my sister died. they said I had PTSD . I dont have that. It did help to have someone to talk to for a little while then I was done. I settled things in my head and just didnt feel the need for them anymore.

They said the same about me I saw a shrink for awhile weened myself off of the meds,& I seem to be doing fine,my anger is fizzling away

 

[MrsMistyReal]

So far I have Twists bones, Lisas maters , dried pintos that I have no idea where they came from (just a small amount) and a box of chicken broth. Meat is more tender then the beans . Still planning on frozen veggies

What time is chow,Ill have veggies & bring dessert

 

[MrsMistyReal]

Its is 78 in the barn and 93 in the workshop! Box fans in both. I blame it on the lack of trees shading the workshop.
I set up the brinsea brooder plate in my triplex brooder, going to put the chicks out there. Started making another storage bin brooder, can't find the heat lamp fixture i bought.

get the sprinkler time make a slip and slide

 

[Granny Hatchet]

What time is chow,Ill have veggies & bring dessert

Just added the veggies and will add penne pasta for the last step 1/2 hr . maybe ? Hurry !

 

[MrsMistyReal]

It is a good thought misty, but he’s not religious in the least...and I haven’t been a member of any church in years and years and years. And the communication is something we do need to work on. He gets emotional and I don’t want to say shuts down but definitely shuts up haha. Even if it’s “fun” if you get my meaning wink wink nudge nudge say no more

Wish I could help but counseling is the best thing to do & don't give up,if this what you want & it's not harming you or your health then fight the good fight I'm a great listener and I'm here any time

 

[MrsMistyReal]

Just added the veggies and will add penne pasta for the last step 1/2 hr . maybe ? Hurry !

pastacrap must find map

 

[pertnear09]

get the sprinkler time make a slip and slide

Careful or it'll be slip and slide and break a hip.