Granny's gone and done it again

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Shalom Benny. I will have to watch the entire video later tonight, but I can't help wondering how long this man will survive... there must be many who want him silenced.


So true, h2o. So very true.


Your hubs needs to believe there is nothing wrong with himself... I bet when he is around her he feels 12 yrs old again. He is internalizing her behavior and blaming himself for it. But the truth is he's an adult now, she can only treat him the way he allows her to. He can pity her for her mental illness, he can love her because she is his mother, he can mourn the relationship that never was, but as long as he allows and accepts the blame for her poor behavior, the cycle will continue. She has the problem, not him, but he allows her to continue. He is not doing himself or her any favors. She does not sound like a happy woman. No one should enable her... you all should disengage.


ouch! I had a mean broody... Wyandotte, go figure. I took a plastic cup and shoved it over her head while I grabbed the eggs. After a week of this she decided to quit trying to bite me.


More very good advice.

We went for his youngest sis, not for his mom. But even if you know something ain’t right, it still hurts

 

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I just hope some councelling is part of the health coverage with the new job. I’ll be taking full advantage. It’s expensive otherwise - especially considering we’re going to have a tinier income...

 

[Wishing4Wings]

Little chicks flooded their brooder again. I just cleaned them out yesterday. I’m so done with them. I put 2 pieces of wood under the waterer so they can’t dig the bedding out to tip it.

I always put it up on a brick paver.

We went for his youngest sis, not for his mom. But even if you know something ain’t right, it still hurts

I know why you went, and I remember how much you were dreading going because of this one person. It takes over your lives. Just saying... I lived this for years before I wised up. Let her go, forgive her failings, pretend she's some extreme character on a sitcom... whatever it takes to put her out of the position of power in your thoughts and emotions. It isn't about right or wrong. She is sick. Have pity for her. A person you have pity for cannot hurt your feelings. And if anything this poor, sad, angry person is pathetic.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

I always put it up on a brick paver.


I know why you went, and I remember how much you were dreading going because of this one person. It takes over your lives. Just saying... I lived this for years before I wised up. Let her go, forgive her failings, pretend she's some extreme character on a sitcom... whatever it takes to put her out of the position of power in your thoughts and emotions. It isn't about right or wrong. She is sick. Have pity for her. A person you have pity for cannot hurt your feelings. And if anything this poor, sad, angry person is pathetic.

 

[Akrnaf2]

Shalom Benny. I will have to watch the entire video later tonight, but I can't help wondering how long this man will survive... there must be many who want him silenced.


So true, h2o. So very true.


Your hubs needs to believe there is nothing wrong with himself... I bet when he is around her he feels 12 yrs old again. He is internalizing her behavior and blaming himself for it. But the truth is he's an adult now, she can only treat him the way he allows her to. He can pity her for her mental illness, he can love her because she is his mother, he can mourn the relationship that never was, but as long as he allows and accepts the blame for her poor behavior, the cycle will continue. She has the problem, not him, but he allows her to continue. He is not doing himself or her any favors. She does not sound like a happy woman. No one should enable her... you all should disengage.


ouch! I had a mean broody... Wyandotte, go figure. I took a plastic cup and shoved it over her head while I grabbed the eggs. After a week of this she decided to quit trying to bite me.


More very good advice.

Good morning W.
Indeed ! He is highly threatend
But he is very brave! I HAVE seen some more interviews and clips he have made, he is a wonderful man! He does not afraid to talk, at all!
If you have time see this one too, He destroys the ideological base of Islamic extremism!

 

[AlleysChicks]

Just checked bator. 5 internal pips. And then the electric went out!

 

[h2oratt]

I just hope some councelling is part of the health coverage with the new job. I’ll be taking full advantage. It’s expensive otherwise - especially considering we’re going to have a tinier income...

Most jobs have EAP. EMPLOYEE ASSISTANT PROGRAM. They give you around three free sessions then hook you up with a counselor if you need more. I know it still hurts.

 

[h2oratt]

I always put it up on a brick paver.


I know why you went, and I remember how much you were dreading going because of this one person. It takes over your lives. Just saying... I lived this for years before I wised up. Let her go, forgive her failings, pretend she's some extreme character on a sitcom... whatever it takes to put her out of the position of power in your thoughts and emotions. It isn't about right or wrong. She is sick. Have pity for her. A person you have pity for cannot hurt your feelings. And if anything this poor, sad, angry person is pathetic.

Well put wishing, don’t give them power to live in your head.

 

[AlleysChicks]

Still out. Temp got down to 88 even after I wrapped it in towels. I put hot water bottles so it helps.

 

[twisted-acres-farm]

I always put it up on a brick paver.


I know why you went, and I remember how much you were dreading going because of this one person. It takes over your lives. Just saying... I lived this for years before I wised up. Let her go, forgive her failings, pretend she's some extreme character on a sitcom... whatever it takes to put her out of the position of power in your thoughts and emotions. It isn't about right or wrong. She is sick. Have pity for her. A person you have pity for cannot hurt your feelings. And if anything this poor, sad, angry person is pathetic.