Granny's gone and done it again

Star, you ever get close to me and dont stop I will haunt you.
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I didn't read the last pages before posting. I think I have the bank crap straight now. DH left me many debts that I am not responsible for in this state. It seems like every creditor wants me to believe that I live in a community property state.

This has been an interesting journey. They don't give you time until the paperwork is completed and the phone calls are made.
Now I just have to sell this house before I lose it.

After that, who knows. Guess I'll figure that one out later.
Your husband left? Did he pass away?
 
Yes, he died of Covid October 5.
Im so sorry for your loss. Your not responsible for debt that was in your DH name unless your name was on it as well. I went thru this with my mom and SF when he passed. You mail them a copy of his death certificate Thats where your responsibility ends.
 
I went and paid property taxes today. Man, goes up more every year! $1,780 something this year.
I wish. Ours is like three times that.
yikes! Mine is around $140.
My first response was a month or a year but you answered that later and to you I say daaaaaaaang.
We would never be able to live in Ca. then. My SSI is $94. a month based on what Tom gets. Wouldnt even buy gas.
Nope, California is expensive.
Oh trust. We just tanked up the motorhome. $370 of diesel later….
Our don’t go up in calif, only good thing about this state. Of course they are trying to screw that up too
I thought they did go up by a fixed amount every year. Joys of escrow account and knowing it’s gonna happen…I don’t pay as much attention as I should.
Got my eyebrows waxed today and oh my lorddd. They’re too thin at the end AND the lady waxed off some skin.. I literally bled and it still stings. :th
Owwwww!!! How did she manage that???? And owwwwww!!!
I've been missing him big time today. Just out of the no where, tears. I've been doing pretty good, but today .🤷
I saw something on the internet years ago and I agreed with it. Grief is like a ball in a box. When it first happens, it’s huge, pushing on all the walls of the box. As time goes on, it shrinks, but sometimes something happens and that ball just goes bouncing off the walls without warning. I wish I saved it.
Biden was just on tv telling us that the reason everything is going up and unavailable is because we are buying too much stuff. Really?
I….uh…I….really got nothin here. Pulling a thumper.
Yes! Glad I do not need to do that! When I had to change schools in the past, it was really awkward! I lost so many friends :(
I feel ya hun. (Was a base brat in my youth)
2 million people not being able to work for 2 weeks.
And no more federally mandated leave.
They didn't do one.
What?? I would have figured covid test would be standard operating procedure.
Im so sorry for your loss. Your not responsible for debt that was in your DH name unless your name was on it as well. I went thru this with my mom and SF when he passed. You mail them a copy of his death certificate Thats where your responsibility ends.
That may depend on your state…
It’s a foggy drive down the 5 right meow. Goose had half a cup of food (I know, I’m tempting fate) and is just chilling in his crate. Later start than I would have liked but I think hubs is still hoping we’ll get all the way home tonight. Well, it’ll all be interstate miles but…I know LA can be a harrowing driving experience…but I’ve got my charger so…ready to rock.
 
Oregon is not a community property state. That wasn't the issue. He had automatic payments coming out of our joint account that took quite a bit of phone tag to get cut off.
I finally got ahold of the correct person.
Ah yeah. That’s some frustration and I’m glad you finally got a hold of the proper person.

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