Do they make him feel sick or does he just not like them? Granny it is amazing that you have lasted this long. Life is not fair. My dad started very young like you and made it to 54 before lung cancer hit him. Some people can live to over a hundred and die from a gun shot wound from a jealous husband. I went to school with a nice young man that gave no one grief about anything and he had a heart attack at 27. We never know. I try not to take chances. When I first started working with Walmart when doing store setups most of the big boys for the company smoked. They couldn't smoke out in the store so they would call a meeting and cramp us in a meeting room and the first words out of the leader mouth was if you got 'em smoke 'em.