Granny's gone and done it again

[Granny Hatchet]

I still have a lot of guilt about things that happened to her mother, things I could not prevent.

Right there with you on that.

 

[BigBlueHen53]

She accepted "no" as an answer for tonight. I just wondered if it's true that this is the way things are done nowadays? Or is this the way abusers get their victims lined up?

 

[Granny Hatchet]

She accepted "no" as an answer for tonight. I just wondered if it's true that this is the way things are done nowadays? Or is this the way abusers get their victims lined up?

Probably both but couldn't answer %100.

 

[BigBlueHen53]

Thanks, guys, I feel better.
I knew you would help.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

I was working at a store/gas station in Ga. I was around 19 at the time and the owner came in and invited all of us next door to a motel that had a bar. I had about half of my drink and that's all I remembered til about 5 hrs. later. It was the date rape drug I am pretty sure. When I came back to myself I had my car stuck and I was soaking wet. No idea where I was. I knocked on a door and a man brought me in. He got me towels and said he knew me from the store. I guess I didn't know anything including my own name. He drove me to the store where they called my in-laws and got a hold of my ex who came and got me. I started remembering bits and pieces as time passed and I wont post it here but it was my boss and it was terrible.
My point is you just don't know who you can trust.

 

[BigBlueHen53]

I was working at a store/gas station in Ga. I was around 19 at the time and the owner came in and invited all of us next door to a motel that had a bar. I had about half of my drink and that's all I remembered til about 5 hrs. later. It was the date rape drug I am pretty sure. When I came back to myself I had my car stuck and I was soaking wet. No idea where I was. I knocked on a door and a man brought me in. He got me towels and said he knew me from the store. I guess I didn't know anything including my own name. He drove me to the store where they called my in-laws and got a hold of my ex who came and got me. I started remembering bits and pieces as time passed and I wont post it here but it was my boss and it was terrible.
My point is you just don't know who you can trust.

I had a similar experience at age 18. Someone I knew and trusted spiked my coffee and I ended up in an upper room above the restaurant with a man who had previously hit on me but I had turned down. For years I thought that experience was a horrible dream until I realized I'd been drugged and, er, taken advantage of (edited for BYC). Even when you are careful things can happen, it's just stupid NOT to take precautions.

 

[BigBlueHen53]

For a long time, every woman I knew had a story. It's like nobody escapes, we've all been victimized at some point.

 

[BigBlueHen53]

Good night, friends. Dlerp Sleep well.

 

[BigBlueHen53]

My typos crack me up!!!

 

[Granny Hatchet]

For a long time, every woman I knew had a story. It's like nobody escapes, we've all been victimized at some point.

Cold hard facts Blue. And I think this is why you already knew the answer to your question.