grannys gone and done it

[Granny Hatchet]

morning wishing, New one far away. I dont know why I didnt sleep but that wouldnt surprise me any. Its happened before. I imagine Robert is nervous too . He also didnt sleep.

 

[Sally Sunshine]

whats wrong with Robert?

 

[Granny Hatchet]

whats wrong with Robert?

he has a cough and sinus for 2 months now. took him to er he had double ear infections. antibiotics helped that but nothing else.

 

[Sally Sunshine]

awwwwww I hope they get it figured out granny!

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Sally, He just wont take a shower. He dont stink that I can tell but its very gross. I am at a lose. His hair is nasty. He refuses mental help and he can because he is his own guardian. I think it is sensory issues . About sure of it but he wont cooperate with anything .

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Camping, any difference this am ? what about the one that had the internal pip ? It should of done external by now ?

 

[Sally Sunshine]

Sally, He just wont take a shower. He dont stink that I can tell but its very gross. I am at a lose. His hair is nasty. He refuses mental help and he can because he is his own guardian. I think it is sensory issues . About sure of it but he wont cooperate with anything .

can you bribe him?

 

[Sally Sunshine]

or a way to make it fun for him? not sure how much he can get entertained but Erics Daughter had bath issues. But I did online searches and found things she could do in there but I would only let her have the stuff AFTER she washed. I know he is a "man" but perhaps something can help you out

 

[Granny Hatchet]

ugg, maybe with a $60.00 game. but that is a one time deal. He used to play in the garden hose with Tom when he was younger. cant hardly get him outside now. He normally listens to reason. just not this. I have told him its not even for him. Its for those around him that are offended by the Oder . I have explained health benefits to him. what could possibly be crawling around on that scalp. I have tried taking him for a hair cut. Thinking they could slip a shampoo in . Maybe I can think of a cheaper bribe . I will think on it.

 

[Wishing4Wings]

Proper hygiene is something his worker is supposed to coach him on.

You are paying for his internet? His food? All his living expenses? He needs to understand how much he is NOT doing to be able to live independently. Do they have a group home lined up for him? You might consider having him move out to try it while you are still able to take him back if he hates it. Then you have some leverage for showering and driving and working because you are doing him a big favor, and he will appreciate it more. I understand his needs, but I think you need to push him to find what his real limitations are. If he could finish an electrician's course, he should be able to get a job. The school should have helped him with this.