Well. I also have a rooster that hates me... just me, nobody else! i have been nice and non aggressive with him, moving slowly, backing away, no eye contact, offering peanuts (his fave, which he eats out of my hands) if he shows any sign of imminent aggression etc, and he just started lounging at me one day. I just have no choice but to kick him away sometimes. I read somewhere that they are most aggressive in the 5-12 month age period and then start to calm down a bit. I sure hope so!