Humans put a lot of unexpected and unwise stress on their animals, expectations that cannot be fullfulled, too. As a human from Alaska, if I was expected to do anything at all other than survive 80 degree weather, and look at the chicken's side of it, they are wearing down filled jackets in 80 degree weather! I'm mean, where is common sense here? Talk to that man, tell him to put on a down winter jacket in 80 degree weather and go lay eggs, bet he has a different view then... really!
And shop around, feed prices vary so much and if he and you are not shopping around for the best buy, that's plain crazy. You don't even have to go pick it up where you live, I'm willing to bet.
Where I live, I have to shop around via phone and computer, order, pay, wait at least two weeks but usually four weeks and check the postal annex while trying to feed carefully and provide other feed when I run out of anywhere from $31.00-$35.00 per 50# bag with 60-70 chickens, 5 ducks and 6 geese.
Tell hubby I am a working woman in my fifties, no one to pay any of my bills, just me, and I'm sure he'll have an attitude adjustment and be very thankful for what's on his plate.
Lastly, put your foot down. Chickens are off limits. Choices can be made about other extras but if you allow him to make all your choices, you are living with too much constant stress. Its okay to be stingy in this one thing, we are all happier with our birds than without and the grandchildren will learn so much and carry this with them thru their lives, irreplaceable memories and strength of character, responsibility, ownership, caring, friendship, many, many more good reasons that help them become wonderful adults
