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Just wanted to let everyone know I had a great Father's Day with my dad. He came over, we sat around at the chicken coop for a while, just talking. Got a passing shower so we ran into my shed for a few minutes until it stopped, then went right back to our chairs, wiped them down with towels and sat back down again. I dressed up a bit today, which I haven't done in a long time, and my father said "Wow, you look great, you look so thin!" This of course made my day because I just lost a bunch of weight and this is the first time I've worn something other than grubby jeans around him since losing the weight. He seemed very pleased that I dressed up just for him. So we hung around for a while and he made a remark that maybe someday he'll get chickens again. It made me laugh and I told him that one of you suggested I get him chicks for father's day.
He said he wants pigeons and told me that I don't remember, but he used to keep carrier pigeons. I said I DO remember, and we proceeded to have a friendly argument; him thinking he had them before I was born, and me, reminding him exactly what shed they were in and how I even remember the time he sat out one night with a shot gun determined to get the weasel that had been getting into the coop. He laughed and said, "Yeah, and I got that little bas**** too!"
We eventually got in gear and headed to Uno's for dinner. He shocked me by not ordering a steak, and mentioning something vague about his recent blood work which worried me but I pretended not to worry because I didn't want to ruin father's day. So he ordered baked haddock and I ordered what turned out to be an absolutely horrendous "curry pasta" dish.
He flirted with our waitress and talked to her with his mouth full and I had to stifle my laughter. At the end, I went to pay the bill and I said, "What do you think, how much should I tip?" and he commented that the waitress had a nice butt.
So I tipped her butt nicely and we left.
Came back home and I gave him a case of his favorite beer, and a card and some candy. I gave him the Home Depot gift card and he refused to take it and gave it back to me and said to put it toward something I need for the house.
It was a simple afternoon and evening, but it was fun. I sent him home with a bunch of fresh eggs too. I think he had a good time. After he left I realized I totally forgot my camera and didn't get a single picture!!!
I don't know HOW I forgot that, after all the discussion here about it, but I did.
It was just nice to be able to relax with him for once. I think he had a nice time. Thanks for all the nice ideas and input. It turns out just spending time with each other was gift enough after all.
PS: Oh, and I almost forgot. On the way home we stopped for ice cream cones. I haven't gone for an ice cream with my dad since I was 10. That alone was just fun.
We eventually got in gear and headed to Uno's for dinner. He shocked me by not ordering a steak, and mentioning something vague about his recent blood work which worried me but I pretended not to worry because I didn't want to ruin father's day. So he ordered baked haddock and I ordered what turned out to be an absolutely horrendous "curry pasta" dish.
Came back home and I gave him a case of his favorite beer, and a card and some candy. I gave him the Home Depot gift card and he refused to take it and gave it back to me and said to put it toward something I need for the house.
It was a simple afternoon and evening, but it was fun. I sent him home with a bunch of fresh eggs too. I think he had a good time. After he left I realized I totally forgot my camera and didn't get a single picture!!!
It was just nice to be able to relax with him for once. I think he had a nice time. Thanks for all the nice ideas and input. It turns out just spending time with each other was gift enough after all.
PS: Oh, and I almost forgot. On the way home we stopped for ice cream cones. I haven't gone for an ice cream with my dad since I was 10. That alone was just fun.
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