Oh, no! Don't think that! There are so many things that can happen regardless of all of the precautions we take.Noooo! I’m sorry to hear that, it’s very frustrating not being able to help them T_T at least I see we’re not alone, so we’re not horrible owners.
And I say all those encouraging things, and I know that I'm right when I say those things, but I feel discouraged whenever something goes wrong....
You are definitely not alone.