Most excellent point. Some folks don't read carefully enough and/or don't have the experience to be responding.It's really easy in on-line conversations to think that everyone's situation is like ours, isn't it? Not so. we do not share the same climate, neighborhood, cultural backgrounds or even the same attitudes about "responsibility". Seems to me that it's way too easy to miss a few pertinent facts when we react to another person's decision making process. Sorry that happened to you.