Hmm possibly a horse? How much are they about a month?

then the horse rolls, steps on him self getting up and renders himself lame requiring hundreds if not thousands in vet bills only to be deemed sound for pasture only and requiring joint supplements for the duration of his life. which will be with you because noone would want to buy him and there are TONS of usable free horses around right now.



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Maybe you could take lessons/lease a horse until you are a little older and more experienced. If you have only been on a horse 9 times you are not ready for ownership just yet.
 
personally id just continue to ride your frineds horse and offer to pitch in a little sometihg each month towards upkeep if your riding him for free...

all the bennies of a horse...none of the expense that way lol.

id love ot have my own horse one day in the future...but it wont be untill i KNOW im ready for it.
i dont think there should be any "think im ready" with a horse, there alot of beastie to only "think" your ready.

the other upside to riding a friends horse is wherever hes boarded mght have folks with different breeds and im sure theyd be happy to let you "test drive" them to get a feel for other breeds...
 
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I would be leary of fencing, there probably is no arena--indoor or outdoor--or anywhere else to ride.

Even if you've done well the few times you've been on a horse, there is A LOT more to horse ownership than "get on and pull to stop, kick to go." Take lessons, enjoy riding a horse that ISN'T yours for awhile. I would suggest lessons for at least another year and possibly leasing a horse before you take the plunge of ownership.

No one ever told me I was a natural on horseback, but I got to be a very good rider through years of experience which is more important in the long run than any natural talent. My daughter has been riding since she was 2 years old, but didn't ride on her own in a show until she was 5. This year at 6 she did her first distance competitive trail ride.

Well i showed charlie at this barn it sorta like a friend of ours barn. SHe owns 15-20 acres There is pretty nice fencings its all elictrical. THeres a outdoor arena but no indoor i can ride next door and use their indoor arena though. CHarlie is almost like a lease i cna ride him whenever he already knows me VERY well such as he me around when he normally doesn't do that for his real owners. This stable is a nice stable nothing fancy but its a good size all the horses are kept in the paddock unless you want a stall.
 
I took lessons for about 8 years and its been been 9 since then.. I STILL dont have a horse.
They are NOTHING to rush into.

If you have a friend that is willing to let you ride their horse anytime I am JEALOUS! lol
If I had a friend offering this I wouldnt be such an eager beaver to get a horse just yet..

Let them show you a thing or two and maybe in a year or so youll be ready
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I would be leary of fencing, there probably is no arena--indoor or outdoor--or anywhere else to ride.

Even if you've done well the few times you've been on a horse, there is A LOT more to horse ownership than "get on and pull to stop, kick to go." Take lessons, enjoy riding a horse that ISN'T yours for awhile. I would suggest lessons for at least another year and possibly leasing a horse before you take the plunge of ownership.

No one ever told me I was a natural on horseback, but I got to be a very good rider through years of experience which is more important in the long run than any natural talent. My daughter has been riding since she was 2 years old, but didn't ride on her own in a show until she was 5. This year at 6 she did her first distance competitive trail ride.

Well i showed charlie at this barn it sorta like a friend of ours barn. SHe owns 15-20 acres There is pretty nice fencings its all elictrical. THeres a outdoor arena but no indoor i can ride next door and use their indoor arena though. CHarlie is almost like a lease i cna ride him whenever he already knows me VERY well such as he me around when he normally doesn't do that for his real owners. This stable is a nice stable nothing fancy but its a good size all the horses are kept in the paddock unless you want a stall.

If I recall you live in Wisconsin. I live in Michigan. If you plan to ride AT ALL on any day the weather isn't perfect--especially being a novice--you do need an indoor arena. Trust me, we get the same snow, wind, rain, blizzards, sleet, freezing rain that you do. While I have ridden outside in 20 below and in a foot of snow, the indoor arena makes riding in winter MUCH easier.

If this Charlie is almost like a lease, I would suggest you keep riding him under supervision of his owners and take lessons. You're young, please do not be in a rush to get a horse. I began taking lessons at age 6, began small shows at age 10, A-rated shows at age 14, my first horse at 19. I'm sure others on this board will tell you their ages--that will be older than 19--when they got their first horse. Often times, life gets in the way and it's very common to wait until your late 20s after family and career are established before getting your first horse.

My boyfriend--who is 41--wants to get a horse. Financially, he's not ready. Riding ability, he's not ready. He has permission to ride a few different horses out at the barn which he does to get more practice. And I insist that he learn more beyond riding. He's learned to safely get horses out of the pasture and turn them out, groom them, saddle and bridle them (both English and western), bathe them, he watched the farrier trim hooves the other day, he helped me and my daughter at the county fair this morning with her pony. He's asked me lots of questions about tow vehicles and horse trailers, fencing and housing. He's been at this since May and, no, he's not ready for a horse yet.

Relax, ride the horses you can. Believe it or not, not everyone gets the chance. There are TONS of kids your age who would love to have the opportunity you've been given. While you may bemoan your lack of a horse of your own, please look at it another way.

YOU ARE LUCKY TO RIDE

Again, not everyone gets to do this. I was given a chance to show Arabians at rated shows in high school. I took advantage of it. None of the horses I showed were my own, but did I learn? You bet I did. It made me a better rider and made me ready for a horse of my own when I got older. This of this time as prep time for then.

We may sound harsh on here, but few children are lucky enough to grow up with horses of their own.
 
I don't want to launch an attack on anyone here here but every time this OP posts, her stories change substantially. Especially regarding her riding and training abilities and the horses that she's claimed to own and train in the past. The question is legit and the answers are right on point so maybe she will actually take the information to heart, but you might want to consider her previous posts when answering her questions. From what I can recall, she had made up her mind to get a gypsy horse and nothing but a stallion would do
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Red, was that the same poster or is this the poster that is friends with the other poster and they have very similar names? Oh heck I don't know how to phrase that sentence any better.
 
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If I were a mod, I'd be checking IP addresses. I'm NOT implying anything but suggest that you come to your OWN conclusions here. It's not rocket science.
 

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