Hello everyone.
I have been teaching from home for 7 years now. My oldest son is in the 9th grade and youngest son, 7th grade. We have used a lot of different curriculum that I have supplemented with loads of information available on the internet, various books, library, etc. If anyone has a question about some of those available, I can tell you our experience with many books, DVD courses, and a few online streaming classes.
For years, I would grade myself as a teacher by their papers. Such stress! Both of my boys are such a joy to be around and I get compliments from people both known and unknown about how polite, caring, and intelligent they are. Now, I have learned to grade myself by those comments instead of some of the test papers I get back. You can certainly tell when they have made effort to learn or not. One thing I love about our home school system is that we do not proceed to the next study until the current one is completely understood, even if that means that we extend the school year just a little. Hey, a mom's got to give them incentive. That would never happen in public school, in fact it was one of many reasons that I took them out. I had a student who refused to do his school work, would stuff his assignments in his desk to hide them, and I was called for several parent teacher conferences. Each day, I had to enter his classroom to check his desk for myself to insure that the stack of work he had as homework actually came home. Most assignments did not help him learn. Classroom work he refused to do and busy work! No wonder he just stuffed it! Every week day he had no time for anything but school work until bedtime. Public school took my son who once loved to read and turned him into "hater of all books."
I knew God was calling me to do something different by him. Sometimes it can be difficult to be totally honest and transparent, but truth be told; I just didn't want to listen because my youngest was entering kindergarten and soon my days would be free to do as I wish. You may or may not know this, but when God calls you to do something, it is something to benefit you and will be much more joyous than ignoring His voice.
As more public school problems arose, my young son entered kindergarten was disappointed that he wouldn't learn to read yet, became bored, and was bullied. I finally decided to be obedient and begin the journey into home school. Sounds like we were in a terrible school district, right? No, not at all. Home prices are doubled due to people wanting in this area for our great school system. The principal of the school was a friend of the family. The teachers... we went to high school together. I knew & liked them all! No doubt, it just wasn't the path we were to take and Someone was trying to make that clear in no uncertain terms.
Within the first two weeks learning at home, in what was supposed to be my hobby room by the gym; young son learned to read, and I got to teach him that. Oldest son was smiling and happy to read, finally learn his multiplication tables, and get to study his favorite subjects in science. I cannot express the joy that filled my heart and would never have believed that I would have ever viewed my new teaching position as anything more than obedience and doing the best for my kids.
Now we drive quite a distance to be active with our cooperative group once a week. I teach 2 Classical French Cooking classes this year and have been a teachers helper for several years as well. The support among other parents and grandparents has been a true blessing when the going gets tough, and it does sometimes. It always helps me to remember how and why it came to this. It helps to remain focused on the goal before us. Have you placed your stone of remembrance?
Both my boys are excellent students and wonderful young men with high expectations for themselves. Their Mom & Dad could not be happier about the way thing are.