As for college
I didn't go to college right after high school. I went from showing Class A to moving up north, trying to make it as an Arabian trainer in an area that HATES Arabs, got a job working at a ranch, competed on the distance circuit for two years before going to college. The competition STOPPED when I had to work full time and take 12-14 credit hours/semester. I still rode 4x a week, though.
Then I got pregnant. Through morning sickness, I was too nauseous to ride, though afterward I did ride up until a week before I went into labor.
And after, I was only able to ride 1-2x a week.
It wasn't until my daughter was about 18 months old and weaned that I could start competing again and it wasn't until she was 4 and my education over that I could be COMPETITIVE in competitive trail (no pun intended).
A lot of women give up riding through college and life after. I clung onto it kicking and screaming through sacrifice and extreme dedication. A lot of women miss it and get back into it in their forties as children grow up and become more independent. But please, take in to account that horses involve care in ALL kinds of weather, even if you board, you still have to worm, hold for farrier and vet, groom, maintain tack and provide attention. Many husbands get resentful of time spent with horses and many co-workers will assume you have money "because you have a horse" despite the fact that I try to tell that that's the reason I DON'T have money. You will give up expensive coffees, manicures, fancy jewelry, nights with friends, fancy vacations and the list goes on. Owning a horse is a lifestyle change that many are not willing to do. It separates those who like horses from horse people.
Not to depress you, but others will vouch for me. I love Izzie, my horse, and I wouldn't give her up for anything. There are other things that I am willing to give up to keep her.
I didn't go to college right after high school. I went from showing Class A to moving up north, trying to make it as an Arabian trainer in an area that HATES Arabs, got a job working at a ranch, competed on the distance circuit for two years before going to college. The competition STOPPED when I had to work full time and take 12-14 credit hours/semester. I still rode 4x a week, though.
Then I got pregnant. Through morning sickness, I was too nauseous to ride, though afterward I did ride up until a week before I went into labor.
And after, I was only able to ride 1-2x a week.
It wasn't until my daughter was about 18 months old and weaned that I could start competing again and it wasn't until she was 4 and my education over that I could be COMPETITIVE in competitive trail (no pun intended).
A lot of women give up riding through college and life after. I clung onto it kicking and screaming through sacrifice and extreme dedication. A lot of women miss it and get back into it in their forties as children grow up and become more independent. But please, take in to account that horses involve care in ALL kinds of weather, even if you board, you still have to worm, hold for farrier and vet, groom, maintain tack and provide attention. Many husbands get resentful of time spent with horses and many co-workers will assume you have money "because you have a horse" despite the fact that I try to tell that that's the reason I DON'T have money. You will give up expensive coffees, manicures, fancy jewelry, nights with friends, fancy vacations and the list goes on. Owning a horse is a lifestyle change that many are not willing to do. It separates those who like horses from horse people.
Not to depress you, but others will vouch for me. I love Izzie, my horse, and I wouldn't give her up for anything. There are other things that I am willing to give up to keep her.
