Well u could try rubbing her head on the forehead or where she thinks it feels best the slowly work ur way down her neck then back. I'd use a brush do it felt good to her. Or u could just drape the lead rope around her neck. Give her a treat and let her relax. The grab the far end of the lead rope that's on the other side if her neck pull it under her neck and hold both ends. Don't tie them together or anything just hold them so u can rub on her neck. If she try's to walk away or shy away u can gentle hold firm or tug on the rope do she knows she can't go anywhere then try rubbing her again.just be gentle but she will figure out u are not trying to hurt her and that it feels good. When she starts to get really comfortable that's when u need to start rubbing her legs and belly snd asking her to pick up her hooves.
