House Divided by Religion

[redhen]

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You need to set some acceptable boundaries about this sort of thing.... And MEAN WHAT YOU TELL HIM.

 

[debilorrah]

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A true head of the home, does what is best for the whole family.
I am guessing that the "religion" is an excuse to cover something else.

I agree and I am starting to lean towards that something else being female.

 

[The little farm]

You need to listen to mamagardener and the others.Be very clear of who you are and protect your children from things that are not right.Do not get sucked in to that mess.Be strong-raise and teach your children to be strong.Good luck

 

[redhen]

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A true head of the home, does what is best for the whole family.
I am guessing that the "religion" is an excuse to cover something else.

I agree and I am starting to lean towards that something else being female.

DING..DING..DING!!!

 

[StrawberryHouseMouse]

I try to not suspect things like that and have trust in him. But honestly you know there's always that worry in the back of my mind, no matter how hard I try to ignore it. Makes me feel guilty to even suspect that of him ya know?

 

[Sonoran Silkies]

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That is suspicious as well....

Yeah..us old ladies that have been around the block a few times are getting a bad vibe from this...
I'm sorry... it dosent look very good to me..

Yes, I am wondering if all his time is with guy-friends, or if there is a woman involved, too.

What is it to him if choose to not EAT when the two of you go out? Isn't it your company that he values? (It should be)

 

[debilorrah]

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I encourage you to take off the sleep mask and start putting two and two together. He is rude, demanding, hard to please, leaves for hours at a time and all this happened suddenly. If we are wrong about him, FANTASTIC! But don't be blind sided when he comes home and says he has found someone that acts the way he wants her to.

 

[redhen]

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I know...and its hard..because of the 'what ifs"..
but either way..hes disrespecting you and your relationship... and i know its very hard.

 

[Sonoran Silkies]

Well, you never even hinted at that, and look how many of us came up with it.

 

[PaulaJoAnne]

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Maybe its time do a bit of snooping, to settle that fear if nothing else.
A husband and father does not up and forsake his family like this, even for church stuff. Its not natural, nor is it Biblical.