Patience and lots of quality time (and treats). Sit with them a lot, talk to them, sing to them. Move slowly and speak calmly. Like the others said above, meal worms are ducky crack. I started by crushing them a bit in my hand and just resting my open hand on the ground and leaving it there until they got curious enough to investigate. Mine are a little over 2 weeks now and come running every time I approach because they know that I bring the yum. Sometimes I'll sit and put their food between my legs so they have to crawl over me or come near me to eat. When they're swimming in the sink/tub, I leave my hands in the water, not trying to touch them, so that while they're swimming around and playing, they're just used to my presence. Now they'll climb up into my hands in while in the water. I have 3 and 2 are very willing to be approached/held/snuggled, etc and one just would rather I didn't. She'll still eat from my hand and follows the others to see what's going on but she would rather not be touched. They all have different personalities and will take to you differently, but the key is quality time. Lots of time. Good luck!