I would love for one day when someone asks me what I did for a living to be able to say, I am a veterinarian. I would be so proud of myself, but its just a word. The average person does not know what it truly means to be one.
Agree. I've heard too many horror stories to count, from vets AND ex-vets.
Wow, I'm glad you guys kicked in. I'll admit, I was very hesitant to post my story, for fear of being judged, being called a Debbie Downer, or getting nasty feedback. I almost deleted my post. People think, "if you love animals you should become a vet" if you are somewhat smart, and you have the passion for saving and loving small critters that most of on this forum have, and they have no idea of the reality of what it takes to become a vet, and then actually be in the field.
I have so many horror stories. And of course, the good stories. But yes, more nights than I can count I was at the clinic till 11 or 12 at night, charting. Doubting myself and my decisions. Dealing with angry people, ignorant people, and cases like hairy dogs in the summer with diarrhea with maggots packed in their vulvas and anuses, having to put them down because their owners didn't want to deal with it. Dealing with stress and depression (that many, many of us in the profession have, unfortunately, and which is exacerbated by the demands of the job), constantly being compared against the more brilliant/younger/better surgeons/ healthier colleagues with more stamina and less personal-life demands. The list goes on.
Yes. I can say I am a doctor. I used to proudly declare that I was a veterinarian. But the cost to my personal life, physical and mental health? Not worth it. My mom used to brag about her daughter the vet. But this daughter was an unhappy, mental wreck of a human with nonstop stress and anxiety issues during her short career.
I was happier as a waitress, as a bartender, as the school nurse I am now, than I ever was as a vet. You can love animals and care for them and NOT have to be a vet, lol.
I have no regrets in life. I like to think life is a big learning experience, that there are no mistakes, it is all part of your path. HOWEVER--if I could redo it? The one thing I would take back is the 2 years of pre-vet, the 4 years of vet school which is beyond horrible, and the years of practice where I was the most mentally unhealthy and desperately unhappy I ever was in my entire life. Just so I could say I finally followed my dream, and was a vet, and was and am a doctor. Not worth it.
Your mileage may vary. Like I said, everyone's path is different. But I caution people considering this profession to talk to as many (honest) different vets as they can, find out how their personal lives balance out, outside of work, and try to get the full picture.
As I tell people, it ain't all Animal Planet.