I think the kids take their cue from the parents.
The kids are allowed to watch at THEIR choice and it's explained that this is where their meat comes from and how it is processed into pieces.
A very big problem in America is the lack of knowledge about meat animals in the general public. Food does not come from a grocery store all neatly packaged. It is [our] responsibility [to educate] children where food actually comes from, how to raise it responsibly, and understand the circle of life.
Absolutely agree. Try to teach your kids as a neutral party and just give them the facts. They can take it well, honestly in "life" as it was children helped do all the family chores from the time they could walk and if you go back 100 years ago these chores were pretty graphic. Yet all I hear about is a desire to go back to
the good old days when life was simple and people were honest.
Maybe understanding and respecting your food and the truth about it was part of that.
OR its all a dream and the only thing we can do is be responsible to ourselves and families.
Kids are often a lot tougher than adults if given the chance to be, dont coddle them because of your preconceptions, give them the choice of how much they can handle.
Now for the adults, who need the real convincing.
Meat birds, even with a name, can be an honorable and satisfying thing. Still, its not for everyone.
For me I take it like some eastern religions and the Native American aspect that all life is precious and all life has a purpose. Some life was meant to be nourishment for others and so long as it is consumed with respect everyone can be happy.
Its not as easy as wolfing down some nuggets, but its more rewarding and more respectful along the whole line.
I find them, I care for them, I kill them, I process them, and I eat them.
They taste good and they know it, so although not extremely excited to go they take their fate with respect and know I really appreciate what they left for me to eat. When I eat a store chicken I might throw away 60% of the nutrition and carcass, but when I kill a bird I make sure to use everything I can. You know what, it tastes good enough to use everything too. So only about 20% or less is "waste" and even that can go to the dogs.
All those icky awful bits are a whole different story when you helped raised them.
In the end its all perspective.
If not knowing suits you, then dont get meat birds.
If you dont mind, and maybe even enjoy knowing about your food then do it.
Either way, raising your own food is a very eye opening experience. No matter what path you choose dont think of it as a win or a loss, think of the many things you learn about yourself and the respect you gain for your food.