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Really? Have you lived with or raised a child wiht ADD or ADHD? Or do you have experience with "normally" distracted kids?
The two boys were in first grade when my son's best friend was hospitalized and taken off all meds because of a rare syndrome, I truly experienced ADHD with this child. While on "meds" this child would listen to me and conform to what I expected from him and my son. He was still twitchy, but he would do what I expected. On a trip to the zoo when he was off his meds I told him to stay where I could see him. He looked at me, nodded, looked away and then darted off - time and again. Previously he would have listened, looked around and then dashed back up the canyon in my direction - staying within sight - but dashing none the less.
In later years I could look at him and say, "Caleb, did you take your meds?" simply based on the behaviors I could observe. 100% of the time I was right, he had missed his meds.
Previous to that, I was the "nanny" for 4 children for 6 weeks. One of the girls was ADHD - but no matter how many times we "missed" her meds I could see no change nor could her siblings. I was astonished that she had been prescribed anything, did she have a learning disorder? Probably. Was it ADHD - I doubted it.
I could go on - but please know- schools and teachers can ask a family to have ADD or ADHD checked - but they cannnot diagnose nor prescribe. Each child must be evaluated by the people closest to them and then a physician consulted.