I'd start lovingly picking him up @Sally PB. He sounds loved, wanted and worth a try. I have had plenty boys peck my feet and even my hands. I figure they can not communicate with words and they always tell me something if I pay attention. But I have never had one come at me with spurs but if I did and I liked him, I'd start picking him up and letting him know big momma is on his side. What does he need?