[[[.........but when people ask what do you say....non of your business? .....]]]]]
First off, there is absolutely no law that says you must answer every question asked of you. You always have the option of ignoring the questions. Ignoring questions is exceptionally easy on the Internet. Just don't answer.
Or, you can say, I am lucky enough to be able to purchase flour from a local mill, (truth) Then don't answer any more questions about the flour.
I suspect that because your baked goods look so good, they are wanting to know how to get the same results. Then that snob thing kicks in. Basically, it is bullying, although a fairly mild kind of bullying. You really could realize that they are just rude and there is nothing wrong with you. Their bad behavior reflects badly on them, don't make their problem into your problem.
First off, there is absolutely no law that says you must answer every question asked of you. You always have the option of ignoring the questions. Ignoring questions is exceptionally easy on the Internet. Just don't answer.
Or, you can say, I am lucky enough to be able to purchase flour from a local mill, (truth) Then don't answer any more questions about the flour.
I suspect that because your baked goods look so good, they are wanting to know how to get the same results. Then that snob thing kicks in. Basically, it is bullying, although a fairly mild kind of bullying. You really could realize that they are just rude and there is nothing wrong with you. Their bad behavior reflects badly on them, don't make their problem into your problem.