My divorce situation is fairly unique since I have not actually lived in the same house as my husband for nearly 5 years thanks to the military. However, we ARE still married and will be, probably at least until he returns to the States in May. I am wondering when other people think it would be appropriate to openly date? I just want to be able to have dinner or a movie without thinking I should drive 3 or 4 hours hoping not to be spotted by anyone who knows me. Any ideas what is considered acceptable these days? I'm too old to be sneaking around.