@Gitabooks I think it's great how much you love your dogs. (But I don't want to get too sidetracked here with an off topic discussion about poodle mixes.)
There has been some excellent advice on what to look for in a reputable breeder!
And I also appreciate the feedback on what constitutes a red flag.
I did not know that a vet reference can only tell you whether they are a client. I was hoping they could confirm which breeds were owned and total number of dogs.
I have also learned that it would be a good idea to look up the state laws governing the sale of puppies. In this case, it is the state of Kentucky. I have heard before about the rules for selling pets on line. (You can read that on the Porter Turkey website, and I think they have a link to the law. It's why Porter's can not sell turkeys as pets. The rule does not apply to agricultural livestock.) But I was under the impression that the rule only applies where the buyer does not get to meet the seller face to face and inspect the pet prior to the actual sale. Meaning it applies to online sales with shipping. I'm sure there are more rules though that I should learn.
It is looking more and more as though even though I would like to give this seller the benefit of a doubt, that she is stretching the circumstances way too thin.
I have purposely refrained from telling the breed, because I was hoping this discussion would be able to apply across the board. But I will admit that part of my problem is that I am trying to find a rare color of a very common breed. The show breeders just do not want this gene in their pools, and that rules them out completely.

That normally is the route I believe in going for a puppy search.
And since it is a very common breed, the middle ground breeders who do not fall in the puppy mill category are many, some of which are better than others. But I don't think it's fair to say that every single one of them should be looked down upon. Or be told they have no right to be breeders. I reserve that for the unscrupulous puppy mill/dog abuser types. And there seems to be a lot of counts against this lady.
More discussion is gladly invited.
