I did not read all the post but here is my advice RUN RUN NOW!!! get out it will only get worse save yourself the misery of looking back in 20 yrs going what the he** was i thinking.
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Exactly! I am unable to work due to health issues. I do have an income however. Still, my job is as homemaker. I make it my responsibility to take the load of household/yard work off his shoulders. He cheerfully takes on the responsibility of providing the money so we can have a nice life.
There are limits however. I don't make extra work for him on his job and he doesn't make extra work for me.
Great post! If you can agree on the big things--values & goals, life direction, the small stuff is relatively easy. It may be a nuisance, but in the grand scheme of things, trivial.