Don't make the vent holes pluggable. The eggs need oxygen and they need it the very most when they're getting ready to hatch. An egg at 19-20 days is using only a tiny bit less oxygen than the hatched chick will be.
If you've made the typical big homemade incubator, the kind where it'll fit 100 eggs but in fact if you stacked them it could fit a thousand eggs (in other words, there's a ton of air space in there), drill another hole near the bottom and snake aquarium tubing in there so you can add water using a big oral syringe. Opening the top to add water will nuke your humidity for hours.
I have used paper towels (dried out too fast), cellulose sponges (the kind the come flat and they pop up when you add water - I don't like the scrubby kind because they add stuff to it to keep it soft in the package, and I didn't want the eggs exposed to anything but pure water - sponges worked great, didn't dry out for a good day or so and were easy to add hot water to), and my latest one is using maxipads. Maxipads are the most embarrassing to explain but they work BEAUTIFULLY and they have the advantage of lying pretty flat. Not an issue if you have a big incubator but fantastic if you have a small one.