Speaking as the mother of three very adult children, please don't be afraid to ask your family for help. Parents/grandparents are mostly only too willing to lend a hand where they can. Many people are falling on hard times these days and it is with the help of our families that we pull through. Always remember, today you may need help but tomorrow you might be the one to give help. I always say to my children, 'pass it on', if you have received help. Bless you and your adorable little girl.