Jess,
I'm not really that far away and if you need any help at all, give me a call and I'll come out for what ever you need. Cleaning, help with animals, anything - say the word. I've got your back.
I've lost both my brother and my father, there aren't any words for the pain. Just do your best, take each day one step at a time. It's okay to cry and break down, it's okay to sleep, and it's okay to take time for yourself.
I wish there was something I could do or say to help ease your pain. Please know you are in our hearts and prayers during this incredibly difficult time.