Husband just died

[rearrolled]

omg im so sorry for your loss

 

[bethanyrae]

Jessica,
I'm so shocked and so sorry to read of what you're going through. From your page and past postings, it sounds like your husband was a really great guy. You're going to miss him terribly. You have a lot around you to remind you of the good times you had with him building your little farm. I'm glad it looks like you'll be able to stay there.

Be careful that your daughter doesn't end up blaming herself, as so many children do this and no one realizes it until later in their lives.

Do you know many people in the community who can be a support to you? If you don't have a church yet, there might be one there that has people who love to care for those in the community who are experiencing a loss.

Praying for you both.

Bethanyrae

 

[Pumpkinpup]

Oh, Honey! My heart aches for you!

I can not imagine the loss of my DH! How awful.
I lost my Mother the day before your Dh passed and that was hard enough but to loose your soulmate. I am just speechless.
I will be praying for peace, closeure and strength. Blessing upon you and your family.

 

[michickenwrangler]

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I don't think our daughter blames herself at all. She was asleep, woke up and he was dead. I'M the one blamimg myself that I didn't get up in the middle of the night to check on him and might have found him sooner and gotten him to a hospital or done CPR or gotten the EMT out there with the defibrilator.

No, I'm not a church going individual and don't attach myself to any one religion. I was raised Catholic but do not practice it, I have delved into Wicca, Paganism, Buddhism and others but I don't attach any labels to myself. Wayne was Christian in the sense he accepted the Bible and believed in God and Jesus Christ but he didn't follow any organized religion or attend church.

And yes, my husband was a good man and he will be missed.

 

[RIRJen]

I followed the link on the Michigan thread to see what had happened, I'm so sorry. Sometimes there just isn't words to help someone feel better but I hope the thought of all the people on BYC caring and sharing their kindness will help easy some of the pain, even if for a moment.

Make sure to take care of yourself

 

[AKsmama]

I am so so sorry for the loss of your husband. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

 

[A2SciTeach]

Like Jen, I just saw this on the Michigan thread. Please know that God's mercy is endless and He is with us always. If there is anything you need, please PM me - I can come up to Gladwin and help out. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Cathy

 

[crtrlovr]

I just saw this (Tues., 03-01-11, 5:05 p.m.). My heart aches for you -- I am so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in our prayers.

 

[Qi Chicken]

I am so very sorry. Prayers be with you.

 

[newchik715]

I wish there was anything I could say except for I am sorry....but what else is there? I can not imagine the pain this must be for you. All I can do is say what has been said. I am so sorry for your loss and I pray for you and yours. it sounds so .....little. but it is all i can say....