I have to add my story too. My husband and I were both married before. I had a very domineering ex, lived a miserable life for 17 years, but did it for my children till I could no longer take it. I thank my lucky stars and God for my husband now of a little over one year. He made me realize what love truly is. I love this man with everything in me. He has made my life wonderful and I am so Happy. I don't think I ever knew what that was before him. Yes ladies there is good men out their, unfortunately sometimes they are hard to find. It's wonderful to see such a nice thread going!!!!