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kellyHM, don't tell her things like "you can have another one" or that "This was probably a blessing." I have been told both many times and NO ONE suffering a miscarriage finds those two statements helpful.
Just tell you you are sorry and you care for her and you want to do whatever you can to help her through it.
And also, invite her to everything just as normal. After my stillbirth everyone dropped me from their social calendars as if i was a pariah. That really, really, hurt.
Just tell you you are sorry and you care for her and you want to do whatever you can to help her through it.
And also, invite her to everything just as normal. After my stillbirth everyone dropped me from their social calendars as if i was a pariah. That really, really, hurt.