I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I didn't read all the comments, but I agree that your husband sounds like a coward. It is going to be difficult, but you CAN get through it! As lots of others have said, get a lawyer now!!!
ETA: I read through a bit more and I have to say... please, please, please do not take him at his word that he will continue to "take care of you". He may have given you some money, but that doesn't mean that he will follow through with his word. I know that you want to believe he will treat you as you deserve, but I have known too many women who think things don't look so bad at the beginning of their divorce, but it doesn't take long for their "honest, and still-caring" husband to turn into a dishonest, uncaring, creep who uses their trust against them. Please get a lawyer as soon as possible even if you don't feel like you need one right now. That is the most important thing you can do in this process.
ETA: I read through a bit more and I have to say... please, please, please do not take him at his word that he will continue to "take care of you". He may have given you some money, but that doesn't mean that he will follow through with his word. I know that you want to believe he will treat you as you deserve, but I have known too many women who think things don't look so bad at the beginning of their divorce, but it doesn't take long for their "honest, and still-caring" husband to turn into a dishonest, uncaring, creep who uses their trust against them. Please get a lawyer as soon as possible even if you don't feel like you need one right now. That is the most important thing you can do in this process.
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