I don't usually post much about hectic problems at home, BUT...

WOW! You have your hands full. Remember that the Lord gives us heaping piles of doo doo before he fixes everything far better than it was before. Remember to give thanks where it is due.
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There is a book put out by the Alzhiemers Assn titled The 36 Hour Day or somesuch. I helped take care of a friend that was afflicted and the book was a godsend. You can probably get it at amazon.com. It is well worth it.
 
Wow, definitely hectic for you. I have a couple of suggestions. My father's FIL has alzhiemers also (because i cant spell, it will be called oldtimers), they found a daycare program that comes and picks him up in the morning and returns him in the late afternoon on weekdays. He is really enjoying it. They live out in the hills of SanDiego county, not in an urban area at all. So you can check on something like that.
Also my DH had his eyes done a couple of years ago, things went very well. He now has better vision than he has ever had and just uses reading glasses to read the puter and a different strength to read books. This was a man who has always needed glasses to find his glasses. When he wore contacts and dropped one - well the hunt was on....but I had to be the hunter. LOL

Best of luck, take care of your belly and enjoy the meds! Super Hubby to the rescue!
 
Thanks for all the replies, makes me feel better.

On the Alzheimer groups, they are fantastic! I helped my Mom take care of Grandmommie for 4 years, and I used those folks a lot. That is one of the reasons we got Dad, is I have experience. But I utilize hubby, cause he is a guy, and helps with the 'guy stuff', lol.

I had my right eye done 4 years ago, and it is a simple operation. But the left eye is worse, so there is a bit more risk. But I have to do it, don't have peripheral vision, nor depth perception.

But you are right, Deb, He never gives us more than we can handle. I try not to think of them all at once, lol.

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Yes....was just gonna suggest this....my Daddy, rest his soul....went thru that and was here with us for 7 years, ( and in the local nursing home ) till he died 2 years ago.
And , I too, had one of the hernias you describe....very painful indeed!! You poor thing....!!
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Hope you find the support you need and my thoughts and prayers will be with your family as you struggle with Alzhiemers.
 
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I realize that what I'm about to say sounds "cold hearted", but I have to say that sometimes He gives us more than we SHOULD handle. My FIL had alzheimers, and it almost killed my MIL when she was trying to care for him. Please consider placing him in a nursing home. You have too much to deal with. Remember you only live once, and there is no going back once you destroy your health.
 
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Alzheimer's disease is very hard to deal with. My family took care of my Grandpa, who had it for 6-8 years. I was 12 when he died. He was in a nursing home for 2 months before he died. The support groups are great, even as a child, I liked to go along! I also agree with ''The 36-hour-Day''(book). My Mom loved that book! We had a senior center near us that Grandpa went to, and when he got worse he went to a daycare. When you have someone like that living with you, you NEED a break sometimes! I loved having Grandpa live with us, so much that, when I got older, I worked as a CNA in the same nursing home Grandpa was in, and requested the Alzheimer's Unit. It really helps you to learn compassion! I will be praying for you.
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My prayers are for peace for you and support for your family.

I've been an Alzheimer's caregiver myself and I know just a bit of what you must be going through.

Please call your Area Agency on Aging in your area to see what support groups are available or respite care - either in or out of home.

Please pm me if you have trouble finding them. I used to run one before early retirement.
 

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