I'm terrible, this hormonal stage is the most I've ever held Negan. I had to handle him alot when he was a chick because he always had a funky butt when his rear got straight I stopped handling him.I honestly thought that would nip any tidbitting or unsavory behavior in the bud...wrong! Now I'm having to handle him and it just feels like I'm squashing his manliness. I do try not to snatch him up in front of the hens, save him a bit of indignity.
No, I don't think you're terrible. Honestly, my opinion is that the hens won't notice and it won't affect his dignity. I'm new to chickens, but not pets in general. I go get mine and pick them up in a crowd... it hasn't affected their own internal pecking order or manly hormones in the least. I have noticed though, that the pullets/hens don't care for being handled as much as they are getting closer to egg-laying age.