I need a bit of help looking a bit more " with it and relaxed" ( I think this involvs something othe

[verity]

I am sure to get 'slammed' for this --- but a pair of dark jeans, jewel tone t-shirt and a cardigan will make a nice outfit for your afternoon trips to dance class --- 'Elf' brand lipstick is a dollar -- it doesn't take any more time that you're already spending just getting dressed -- so 'take it up a notch' and see how you feel ---
K-Mart has cute jackets, cardigans, for not-much-money and it might make you feel better while you are doing all those things for other people to spend a tiny bit of time on yourself --- you sound as if you are doing way too much for too many people --- just reading your signature description makes me tired!

 

[HeatherLynn]

LoL I took my husbands suggestion. I told her that the only days I get a break and some alone time are dance class days so honestly another day only meant I got more " me time". So essentially keeping her from the performance would only rob me of relaxation time. My daughter got 2 parts in Cinderella lol.

I did buy myself a couple nicer tops and a pair of leopard flats. Kinda cute but would never work out with the goats or the cows. I am struggling a bit with anxiety attacks again so I am actually really thankful for the extra alone time. Park right across the stress where I can take walks.

 

[Yayah]

So yes, of course everyone is right. Don't fret about what someone says. However, I have always thought the quickest fashion cheat is dangly earrings! Lol! Seriously invest in a cheapo pair or two. And maybe a necklace to go with it. It's all in the accessories!
But that's just my two cents!