Boise-girls
Songster
I've only had mine 3 months, and it's definitely a learning experience! Like you, I read a lot before hand, but I think I ignored "icky" stuff, like what to do about poopy butts or mites.I have two silkies, and they are on layer pellets and a corn mix. They are in a coop and run as I'm unable to let them free range. The set up isn't the problem. It's just taken care of them I'm not sure about certain things, like one has a dirty bum but she is not tame so I don't know how to help her and the ground in the run is getting dirty with poo but I don't know how to clean it or if I need to clean it or do I put something on the grassIts just not going or feeling how I thought it would. Thank you for taking the time to talk to me

So, yes, sometimes I felt overwhelmed and wondered if it was going to work out. I think as you gain confidence, and you and your girls get to know each other, you'll feel a lot better! They are awfully cute and full of personality. From what I read, silkies are particularly winsome, plus they're awfully cute!
I've done treatments and butt cleaning on my banties at night, after they've gone to sleep. It was scary the first time, but way easier than I expected! If possible, you'll find it easier to have a helper, so one of you can hold her and the other can clean.
Regarding your run - since chickens supposedly ruin grass, I just dumped an entire bag of Flock Fresh (chopped straw) in what was, at that time, an 8x8 run. The hens love to dig around in it and that keeps the poop buried and under control. Two silkies probably won't hurt your grass so much, but like previous people have said, having deep litter in the run should help a lot with your other issues.
Hang in there! As others have said, BYC is a tremendous resource if you need help, and people are very willing to answer your questions. You'll be in love before you know it!