I need some help, advice - not chicken related

[tfpets]

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Yep - that's what it's gonna be tonight. My fiance and I talked this morning, and we have a list of the basic things that need to happen every day. And when I ask for them to pick something up, if it isn't done within 60 minutes, it goes in a bag to the dump.

Thats the way! Cooperate and Communicate! Congrats and good luck, you'll be in our thoughts.
Tina

 

[I have WHAT in my yard?]

Blending a family with teens is hard!!

But, one of the things they are looking for are the boundaries. They WANT to know what the rules are -- so they can break them! At first at least they'll break 'em to see Hmm it was the rule Monday, Is it still the rule Tuesday? How about Wednesday??

If you and fiance remember that you are a team they can't divide and conquer.

I third getting social services for your mom too.

You're doing all the right things just keep going!

 

[ldburton]

Not the same situation but overwhelming too. I didn't take care of myself and for almost 2 years after things settled down, I was feeling the effects on my health and nerves. Please take care of yourself.