Please understand.. I questioned motivation.. just as it's in my nature and others may do... not knowing anything about you personally or the situation. But I try not to jump to conclusions and in NO way intended to make any accusation against you!I realize it might seem like I'm just trying to get revenge on an ex, but honestly we didn't leave on bad terms. I just keep thinking about how the animals shes already "rehabilitated" are doing and how many more animals shes kept getting. It just knocked me over the edge when I heard and got pictures of their home, which has all of the animals I listed above running around. The fox lays underneath their sofa, the deer resides in their bathroom, etc etc. I just can't sit by pretending this is right

Your non defensive, gentile reply.. speaks volumes about your character AND intent to ME!

When the smell is bad.. it isn't bad only for the animals but for the people as well.. it's actually toxic to breath not just nauseating. Code enforcement may even condemn the house and deem it not livable until conditions are corrected. Though this may cause some hardship to their family.. it could also be a catalyst point toward recovery on a situation that may have accidentally gotten out of control and is now running their lives with no way out as they don't know how to stop it. This lady is obviously very ignorant in the care and behavior of wildlife and needs a true education on the subject! Also she is acting very selfishly to meet HER sick needs not that of the animals. Mentally ill people can be plenty happy families... I'm NOT making excuses OR excusing her behavior in any way.. I am saying SHE needs help and there IS more to this than meets the eye, deep inside her. I DO believe you want to help the animals and not just hurt the family! Everything happens for a reason.. Since you didn't leave on bad terms, I'm sure you would like to see the best for them as well.. and hoarding animals of any kind wild or domestic in unfit conditions isn't good for anyone involved.
I do hope you will keep us updated and that the agencies responsible will hear your concerns and investigate them fully plus follow through as needed!

Also you are right, wildlife that cannot be released back into the wild are often cared for by zoos who employ the help of animal behaviorist, a VERY specific diet with lots of species appropriate enrichment that keeps them both physically and mentally fit in captivity. Any orphaned animal should be taught how to forage it's own feeds and they have facilities to help accomplish this. We taught the owls to hunt mice by using a flight cage and putting the mice inside essentially a stock tank.. they need to develop their wing muscles also. Raccoon are crafty, that one might of made it.. the owl ehhh less likely. 100% YES what she's doing is inappropriate!
I just saw your most recent update.. please ask him for a personal follow up to let you know the outcome, in case he happens to drop the ball. I'm sorry for being so suspicious..


That will help a lot. But I think more awareness and the ability to recognize it... uh gee treatment I can't even imagine the scope of complication involved.. but just like breeding chickens, you can gain an eye for what you're looking for and it becomes unfortunately all to easy to spot. If I knew then what I know now.. would I have passed my super flawed genetics into unsuspecting offspring?! I certainly don't have the answers.. but thank you for acknowledging and understanding the need to start having a discussion about what's truly plaguing at least a portion of America today and effecting so many more than that even.So many problems could be helped if we treated mental illness with less stigma.

Please note.. self confessed hoarder (of things), recovery in progress... At 47 years old, I'm still over coming all the things I was taught were important. It's HARD to throw things away when you were raised with nothing, plus we want to be environmentally friendly and up-cycle stuff right! The hardest part is NONE of the stuff means anything to me NOW as I realize it's just something that takes up space to dust or pack and move.. to unpack and repeat yet again. Some of the stuff I keep so it won't hurt the person who gave it to me even though my interest has changed or I'm never gonna use it. Add in a husband with his equal share of issues who likes to shop DEALS, can't find anything in our clutter, and buys new stuff that then can't be found by the time we need to use it next! And how many times have I opened something years later that didn't work but was past the return date.

Ah.. my family said their glad I'm not doing drugs. I would likely be enchanted by the experience just like the kids, before I knew any better. In fact come to think of it we had a raccoon when I was a kid. And even right now as long as he isn't feeling neglected.. hubby want's wife happy.. if it upsets wife it upsets hubby and he WILL work to make wife happy... My point being that I can sense the challenge the animals face.. My husband and I have both already come to reason WHY we have certain behaviors and we both WANT to be better and change... even wanting the change... in his 50's these weren't developed over night and it takes active practice to rise above it... just even with grocery shopping!she has three teenage kids and a husband that condone this behaviour. They think having more cuddly pets it "cool"
I know you're not trying to change the family.. but maybe they are ready even if they don't yet realize it. And if not.. then it doesn't matter, we can't change the world.. we do what we can and what we feel compelled to.. helping the helpless.. that's honorable and I wish you the best!

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