Is she mad at me?

RubberDuckee

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7 Years
Jun 30, 2012
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Hi, I am new.

I just returned from a week-long workshop out of town. My parents watched my 3 ducks.

When I returned home on Sat. evening I learned that my mom had unintentionally startled my ducks with her umbrella Fri. evening on her way out to the barn to feed the animals and put them in for the night. 2 ducks flew off and only 1 returned.

My parents could hear the other duck calling but could not find her.

On Sunday morning I took the remaining 2 ducks to the house for the day. It is obvious that both remaining ducks are very upset, but one acts especially strange. She quacks loudly for me to come outside, but once I go out there she puts her head down and "widens and flattens" her body, walking close to the ground, moving her head up and down, and puffing up the feathers on her "forehead." If I go inside, she quacks again, but as soon as I go outside her strange behavior returned.

Is she mad at me since I was gone for a week and her friend flew away?

Meanwhile... I spent Saturday night and much of the day yesterday walking the neighborhood, calling for the 3rd duck. I assumed she had not made it through the 1st night out alone. She is just learning to fly and sometimes has a hard time with finding her way around since things look different from above.

Then last night, after I had locked everyone up in the barn for the night, I heard a loud SQUAWK! I ran back down to the gate where I found my missing duck, looking a bit disheveled, but happy to be home. I scooped her up in my arms, hugged and kissed her, and cried with happiness. "God keeps his eye on the sparrows..." :)

Which brings us back to today... The ducks are back to a trio once again. Yet, the one duck who was acting so strangely toward me yesterday is still displaying that behavior today, every now and then...

I can't help but get the feeling that she is mad at me...

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She has been traumatized, and I feel that similar to people who are upset, she has to take it out on someone. She may also just be trying to tell you HOW upset she has been.

Treats, quiet time together, and time will probably help.

How old is she? My runners began being very afraid of me at about three weeks, and this lasted for several weeks. I was heartbroken. But it is a phase many ducklings go through. I think it is a survival mechanism.

I am happy beyond words that you found your third duck! Thank you 1,000,000 for not giving up on her!!!!!!
 
Thank you for your advice and encouragement, Amiga! I suppose she may be a bit upset with me. My 3 girls were 13 weeks yesterday. Funny you mentioned your ducklings became fearful of you around 5 weeks or so. Looking back, I think I noticed similar behavior in mine, but was never exactly sure... being new to ducks and all... Thank you very much for your insights!

Perhaps is does simply want to "tell" me all about it... Perhaps this is something like little children who throw temper tantrums upon the sight of their mother...? I hope she will settle down soon. Poor thing, I guess the whole experience.... which was likely complicated by the trauma of loud fireworks a few nights prior... really scared her.

Thanks! I am so, so glad I didn't give up too! Quite honestly, I thought she had been raccoon or fox food. My mother posted "lost duck" signs around the neighborhood, which is funny in itself. And I felt a little funny hollering out "duck sounds" like "cheep, cheep, cheep," "buck-buck-buck," and "Here, bird! Good bird! Come here, bird!" around the neighborhood. It did bring assistance from several neighbors though... One neighbor thought he had seen "an insecure looking duck" alone beside his pond. This gave me hope to keep looking. Thank the good Lord for taking care of my girl! It is still hard to believe she made it back!!!!
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Ducks DO know thier people. I think she loves you. She is domonstrating mating behaviour.

Ducks HATE change. Just settle back into THEIR routine and all will be well.
 
Thanks, Chick! That's a pretty funny thought! Well, I sure love her too! I am glad that it sounds to be emotional, rather than there being some type of physical "spell" or "trimmer" occurring. Hopefully I will be able to show her that things are okay and she will be able to relax again. :) Thanks again!
 
I don't think your duck is mad at you.

My white Campbell does this to me and I think it is hilarious!!! And as she turns to walk away, she always quacks. It's almost like she's saying: "Gonna getcha; gonna getcha. Not! Ha-ha!!" I think its very endearing
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