Ah, your dad sounds like my brother!
1) I think it's reasonable to ask for the pop door modification since you are building for a smaller bird. If he squawks at it just tell him you want the pop door 20 tall then you add the 2 x 6 board at the bottom when it's done.
You can do the kick door boards yourself. If not you're handy with nails just use screws.
2) This is a modification that takes extra time so he may not want to put the time into it. You could make this the ONE thing that you really would like to change.
3) You can always just put the window in normally and the hardware cloth on the outside, which you can trim out yourself. Again, just straight cuts and some screws. I wanted to do the same thing but wondered if it
would hold up to the weather longterm. Windows aren't made as well these days and they're not made of course to keep moisture out from the inside. I'd ask some others about doing it this way.
4) I would just have the hardware cloth bought..."Gee Dad, I just thought this was what you were supposed to use. I want to use it now since I can't return it, I don't have the receipt." (eat the receipt so you're not lying to Dad).
I don't think he'd have an issue with anything except #2. I had some free doors for my coop but my brother said he didn't want to mess with framing out doors and didn't want to use them. I was bummed, but I figured buying a couple of pre-hung doors was the price I had to pay to have my coop built, otherwise, for free. Also, if you tell your dad "This is the way it's done on BYC" it's like you're telling him that you respect others opinions over his. If you say, "I saw this like this and I like it, I don't know why, but I really want to do it that way. Could you please do it like that? I'll let you tell me I told you so when it backfires on me. hahaha"
I wanted my vents symmetrical. I'm very picky that way! My brother was mad at me. I told him that it was important to me, that I know it doesn't matter in the realm of things, that I'm uptight but can't help it...then I told him to do it however he wanted. I got frustrated and went to tend to my chickens. When I came back I saw that he had done it the way I had requested.
Remember to thank him for all the small details and any great ideas he comes up with. Be out there with him handing him the hammer and learning what you can from him. Have fun with it!
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1) I think it's reasonable to ask for the pop door modification since you are building for a smaller bird. If he squawks at it just tell him you want the pop door 20 tall then you add the 2 x 6 board at the bottom when it's done.
You can do the kick door boards yourself. If not you're handy with nails just use screws.
2) This is a modification that takes extra time so he may not want to put the time into it. You could make this the ONE thing that you really would like to change.
3) You can always just put the window in normally and the hardware cloth on the outside, which you can trim out yourself. Again, just straight cuts and some screws. I wanted to do the same thing but wondered if it
would hold up to the weather longterm. Windows aren't made as well these days and they're not made of course to keep moisture out from the inside. I'd ask some others about doing it this way.
4) I would just have the hardware cloth bought..."Gee Dad, I just thought this was what you were supposed to use. I want to use it now since I can't return it, I don't have the receipt." (eat the receipt so you're not lying to Dad).
I don't think he'd have an issue with anything except #2. I had some free doors for my coop but my brother said he didn't want to mess with framing out doors and didn't want to use them. I was bummed, but I figured buying a couple of pre-hung doors was the price I had to pay to have my coop built, otherwise, for free. Also, if you tell your dad "This is the way it's done on BYC" it's like you're telling him that you respect others opinions over his. If you say, "I saw this like this and I like it, I don't know why, but I really want to do it that way. Could you please do it like that? I'll let you tell me I told you so when it backfires on me. hahaha"
I wanted my vents symmetrical. I'm very picky that way! My brother was mad at me. I told him that it was important to me, that I know it doesn't matter in the realm of things, that I'm uptight but can't help it...then I told him to do it however he wanted. I got frustrated and went to tend to my chickens. When I came back I saw that he had done it the way I had requested.
Remember to thank him for all the small details and any great ideas he comes up with. Be out there with him handing him the hammer and learning what you can from him. Have fun with it!
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