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Ummm no those people live in NY, and most big cities. I know, I was one of them, and that is why I GOT OUT!!!
HOWEVER, I admit, I went a bit overboard in my post and for that I sincerely apologize to the OP, Readers and Admins.
We are a very dispersed but very close nit community. No locks on the doors, cars left running in the parking lot at the grocery store, if someones cows get out they generally don't even know it. And a good amount of the time I pull up in my drive way, one piece of equipment or another is not there. No reason to ask, get what you need, and get what you can taken care of, if you need help I am a phone call away. I actually have my neighbors manure spreader in my pasture right now and he knows nothing about it. Another neighbor has had my calf table for five years, I actually called HIM and asked if I could get it back. Last week there was rain coming so two of us put up our others neighbors hay. I can't even count the number of things they have done for me. We have come home to neighbors at our kitchen table.
But there are others who have been helped who then complain about things that just are the way they are in the country. The poor sherif is constantly harassed by those who move here and expect no power outages, constant telephone service, and how dare we wean calves and not make them shut up. We don't have roosters but my neighbor does, I would never dream of asking him to reduce his flock. As he would never ask me to wean my calves somewhere else. These same people are stuck in the driveway in the middle of winter crying and complaining when they can't get out, or there battery is dead, and they have no idea what to do. With that said, I would be the first to offer assistance if I received a call or saw them in distress, and almost every neighbor within a 10 mile radius would do the same.
I guess the biggest problem is we work things out, and for some reason people just can't get that part figured out. There is give and take. There is no need to call a lawyer, or the fuzz. We try to help others succeed and are happy when they do. If my neighbor could make a million dollars by having a thousand roosters, I would help build the coop. As a matter of fact in a month we are all re-roofing his house. In that effect the OP's neighbor did the right thing. He raised a concern, she will do what she can. And I am certain that she will do what she can to help others, including the complaining neighbor. But what I find very refreshing is that she is not willing to bend over and take it up the pie hole cause someones feathers are ruffled. She is gonna stand her ground, with appropriate concern, and kindly let him know, after she has handed him a pillow, to go pound fence posts with his backside. I just hope she takes pictures...